“I care”, he said

“It’s a lie”, she said

“Oh dear! you are so confused”, he said.




Some wise words…

Have you ever encountered a situation where you try to help someone just out of a sheer  sense of humanity  and the person in front of you don’t appreciate you  efforts  and instead gives you a cold shoulder and on top of all that also insults you in their sweet sarcastic tone?

Yes, it happened to me and every time it happens  I get  out of control.Either I react too abrupt  and impulsive acting like an out-of-control-two-year-old or  I completely  ignore that person and pay no heed to his/her sarcasm.( the prior the more) . But today I wanna confess that,

IT HURTS… Yes, it hurts when you try to be nice to someone and in return  gets  the mind-your-own-business attitude. Maybe that person has no intention to hurt you. Maybe he/she never noticed that you felt it. Maybe you are good at hiding your feeling and pretending that I don’t care BUT let’s be real here… DEEP INSIDE WE CAREWE ALL DO.

So next time when you are not in a good mood please do not project your anger on someone who is innocent. Be in control of yourself and your anger. Be more rational and think before you act. Most of the time you don’t want to do it so  think about the  outcome.As Confucius said, ” Whenever anger rises, think of the consequences”.

AND, to the poor innocent person who faces all the anger for nothing please remember THERE ARE TWO SIDES TO EVERY STORY. Don’t be too quick to judge. Remember you don’t know what the person in front of you is going through.Be proactive and take charge of your own life rather than letting others influence it.Besides, why let someone else ruin your day for something you are not responsible for?

Stay cool, Stay happy and don’t forget,  

Happiness, like unhappiness, is a proactive choice”.     –Stephen Covey

Where I am from …

Note: This is a poem I wrote three years ago as a class assignment for my Creative Writing class  during my exchange year in the US.I wrote this poem to give other classmates some idea about “who I am”

I am from the purple-headed mountains, the milky white water

that pours down the cracked holes in Earth

I am from the meat-loving nation and the mouth-watering cuisine

oily,salty,spicy,crispy umm

I am from “Give Respect Get Respect”and my parent innocent dreams

seeing their daughter going to college

I am from the city of lights, illuminating and prismatic

and the dark opaque hours ,waiting for the power to come back

I am from the shivering winters and the sweltering summers

and the relaxing chai and the tasty gola

I am from the whispers  of boring maths classes 

and cramming the “Equations of motion”at 1 pm

I am from the streams of tears after watching Titanic

and the wet eyes caused by the fear of losing my loved ones

I am from the simplicity and integrity of my ancestors

        dipped into the modernization of my thoughts

PS. I don’t find  mathematics or physics boring subjects anymore,in fact, both are my favorite.:)